A Conflict

For the last two days the relationship between me, myparents and my husband has been deteriorated. It was actually a real tiny trigger, a person whose being regarded as a member of the family, which is actually not...considering he's been followed my dad since 1999 ago. Companying him and Mum everywhere, he is "appointed" as a driver, no more less..
Well, since then he is a loyal and devoted member who companied Dad everywhere.When the hotel was established, he's also worked there. Acting as a general procurement, he's been helping in almost all of department. Since the hotel was not that professional yet, he can be a great helper.But this condition made him taking advantage of Dad's sincerity and dependence, i.e: slept in rooms of the hotel and used phone excegingly...Both me and my husband were so angry about that. we couldn't accept what so ever...However, Dad showed a contradictory. He seems to have sides on him... then there were quarrels...though we apologized, for we realized we are only children, one of a duty of children is to cheer up their parents...